Dinesh Shastri
3 min readApr 10, 2024

How do I take care of things like a trustee does - No possessiveness,so no fear of losing them.

20 tips

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Taking care of things like a trustee, without possessiveness or fear of losing them, requires a mindset of detachment and responsibility. Here are 20 tips to help you approach your belongings with a sense of stewardship rather than ownership:

1. Practice mindfulness and gratitude for the things you have, recognizing their value without becoming attached to them.

2. Cultivate a sense of abundance and trust that you will always have what you need, even if you were to lose material possessions.

3. Focus on the present moment and appreciate the utility and beauty of your belongings without clinging to them.

4. Practice non-attachment by letting go of the need to possess or control your belongings.

5. Treat your things with care and respect, recognizing their temporary nature and the possibility of passing them on to others.

6. Declutter and simplify your life to reduce attachment to material possessions and create space for what truly matters.

7. Practice generosity by sharing your belongings with others and contributing to the well-being of those in need.

8. Invest in experiences and relationships rather than material possessions, prioritizing what brings joy and fulfillment to your life.

9. Reflect on the impermanence of things and the transient nature of ownership, letting go of attachment and fear of loss.

10. Practice detachment by releasing emotional ties to your belongings and letting go of the need for material possessions to define your identity.

11. Prioritize quality over quantity when acquiring possessions, choosing items that are meaningful and serve a purpose in your life.

12. Create a budget and financial plan to ensure responsible stewardship of your resources and avoid overspending on unnecessary things.

13. Practice self-care and self-compassion to fulfill your own needs without relying on material possessions for validation or security.

14. Practice environmental stewardship by minimizing waste, recycling, and contributing to a sustainable lifestyle.

15. Develop a sense of detachment from material possessions by regularly decluttering and reevaluating your belongings.

16. Practice detachment meditation and mindfulness techniques to cultivate inner peace and freedom from attachment to things.

17. Seek support from a therapist or counselor if you struggle with attachment issues or fear of losing possessions.

18. Practice gratitude for the abundance in your life and the things you have, cultivating a sense of contentment and fulfillment.

19. Practice forgiveness and release any negative emotions or resentments associated with material possessions or loss.

20. Reflect on the impermanence of life and the fleeting nature of possessions, focusing on what truly matters in the grand scheme of things.

By adopting a trustee mindset and practicing detachment from material possessions, you can experience a sense of freedom, fulfillment, and inner peace that transcends the fear of loss. Remember that true wealth lies in the richness of your experiences, relationships, and inner resources, rather than in the accumulation of material possessions. Enjoy the things you have while letting go of attachment and fear, embracing a more mindful and responsible approach to stewardship.

D.G.Shastri

Dinesh Shastri
Dinesh Shastri

Written by Dinesh Shastri

Motivating , Happiness, Mindful Life,Writer, blogging

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